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Brayden_Buckingham Brayden_Buckingham
12/28/2013 8:11 PM

I've been going out with my beautiful girlfriend , Chan , for over a year. I love her dearly , it's my first real relationship. I've told her I'm going to marry her. But I'm really protective. I get upset about little things. I mean , she's pretty popular , and she spends a decent amount of time with other guys ; today , she went with 2 of her friends with 5 guys she's not really friends with I guess. I trust her , but it's like being jealous fucks my judgement up , yunno? It's pretty hard dealing with it , even with stupid little things. I feel like shit at times , because I get upset and so she does too. Since I'm overprotective as well , it hurts alot more than usual.

I'm a decent boyfriend , but it fucking sucks when your girlfriend is 100000x better than what you deserve , and it feels like these other , better looking , "cool " guys ,etc , could just take her or they could do shit when I'm not there. I want to know if it's just me or do other guys feel like this , because it is a pretty shitty feeling. Some of the people she was with , she's told me that they're good looking and other shit like that. I need a way to stop feeling jealous , for both of us. Biking helps but with this weather I can't.

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Cmxx Cmxx
12/28/2013 10:26 PM

Honestly, you just have to suck it up and realize that if you really trust her, you shouldn't be getting jealous. And about the her telling you other guys are good looking, don't you still think other girls are pretty?, but I'm sure you don't want to go out with them. Though it's still probably not right for her to tell you that she thinks their good looking. The probably best thing to do is just talk things out and relax a bit.

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handlebar-to-face handlebar-to-face
12/29/2013 8:49 AM

Its really one of those things you cant avoid, jealousy will always happen in a relationship fuck I've even caught myself being jealous a few times haha. the way i see it is she's obviously going to have other friends you cant just expect her hang out with you and you being jealous about stuff like that is really only going to hurt you in the long run because she might end up thinking your crazy or something and leave

But like said above the best thing you can probably do is talk about it either that or lock her ass up in your basement

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sketchytravis sketchytravis
12/29/2013 12:54 PM

don't let it eat you man


shes probably not doing anything... but I know that whole feeling of theyre way too good for you... that's all I feel ahah

skooter... dont be a pussy

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bmxfromma bmxfromma
12/29/2013 12:58 PM

I know that feel bro

Honestly? Who gives a shit. Its the fucking internet. I hate all of you equally.
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K_A_N_E_ K_A_N_E_
12/29/2013 1:03 PM

She's not doing anything, and she obviously like's you a lot if she's staying with you.

You have to learn to not be jealous if she's around other guys, your relationship is a love one, her relationship with other guys is just friends.

Come on man, you definitely deserve her, you're a good looking kid.

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Brayden_Buckingham Brayden_Buckingham
12/29/2013 4:19 PM

Fucking creeping my facebook Kane LOL

Thanks though Kane , that definately helps , it really is just my dumbass overthinking things. Getting jealous is without a doubt my weakest characteristic and although I try to keep it away it seems to keep coming back. Thanks , and everyone else who commented.



*Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez for Halloween*

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Believe Believe
12/29/2013 5:04 PM

Keep yourself busy when she it out with her friends, or doing other things that could make you jealous. Over thinking things is the #1 reason for jealousy. Dont give yourself time to think, go bike with your homies

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kevin burnett kevin burnett
12/29/2013 8:22 PM
Believe wrote:

Keep yourself busy when ...more

This exactly, i think we all have this same problem to an certaint point.

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K_A_N_E_ K_A_N_E_
12/30/2013 10:45 AM
Brayden_Buckingham wrote:

Fucking creeping my ...more

Dude, I was wondering why it looked like you shit your pants LOL

I'm gonna need bigger bars

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Brayden_Buckingham Brayden_Buckingham
12/30/2013 12:11 PM
K_A_N_E_ wrote:

Dude, I was wondering why ...more

Actually really comfy (hammerpants) but Bieber wears them all the time so I went with it

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K_A_N_E_ K_A_N_E_
12/30/2013 12:28 PM
Brayden_Buckingham wrote:

Fucking creeping my ...more

K_A_N_E_ wrote:

Dude, I was wondering why ...more

Brayden_Buckingham wrote:

Actually really comfy ...more

they look like baggy pjs

I'm gonna need bigger bars

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HardBMX_Tim HardBMX_Tim
12/30/2013 2:50 PM

My relationship is kinda the same way and I get where youre coming from.
When my girl used to hang out with guys (which NEVER happens anymore since I kind of went off since she wouldn't allow me to be with other girls), unless it was one of my close homies, or a total loser, I would get worried. It wouldn't be because I didn't trust her, its because I didn't trust the guy who I didn't even know. And knowing he could convince her she deserves better and get her to cheat on me was sooo scary. But I guess thats a part of it. And im whipped as fuck, I wont lie. Im too happy with her (even though my relationship is currently failing horribly) to even try talking to other girls/reply to their texts.




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Brayden_Buckingham Brayden_Buckingham
12/30/2013 8:46 PM
HardBMX_Tim wrote:

My relationship is kinda ...more

I trust her alot. She's faithful as fuck. She's also really against intimate stuff so even if any other guy tried anything , she wouldn't let him . I know first hand. So it's good and bad I guess haha.

I'm totally all for going out and making friends and meeting people. If I started controlling her , that'd be against the reason I go out with her ; I'm supposed to help her grow positively as a person. She's not always with guys but when she is , I just feel like competion or whatnot. I really can't word this well , I've deleted alot already haha. Exactly what you said , I don't know the guys so it's like competion in sense. I don't have alot of money so when she goes and does stuff that she wanted to with me , but with other guys , I feel like I let her down and just feel guilty. It's like "Oh , she's with these really cool people , that actually take her out , I don't know them so they might be hitting on her" And it's like the stir of my feelings , that other people have opportunities do make her feel better.

I'm protective as fuck , and the jealous type too. My attitude is definately affect her emotions , she told me that she "gets scared to tell me when I go out" with other people . It really stung. I had no intentions of her feeling like that , over just being around new people. I know for a fact that she often takes things too seriously , but I really need to work on my behaviour.

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HardBMX_Tim HardBMX_Tim
12/30/2013 8:54 PM

Hah well dont take my word for it! I just broke up with my (ex) girl... so yeah:/ pretty bummed, yo.




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Brayden_Buckingham Brayden_Buckingham
12/31/2013 1:12 AM
HardBMX_Tim wrote:

Hah well dont take my word ...more

If you wanna talk about it , hit the reply button or message me on facebook mate , it's my username. Seriously , if you need anything or wanna let yourself lose , i'm here brother !

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T-rider T-rider
12/31/2013 5:09 AM
HardBMX_Tim wrote:

Hah well dont take my word ...more

Sorry man :/

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HardBMX_Tim HardBMX_Tim
12/31/2013 7:39 AM

Thanks m8! Means alot. For right now, weve worked things out. Although this is the 4th time in the past two weeks weve come close to breaking up and then made up. My relationship is in the shitter and sadly it takes two people to fix it, so I dont see it lasting much longer. You can add me on fb if you want though lol www.facebook.com/adrenaline.bmx1




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tainted1581 tainted1581
1/2/2014 11:31 PM

I wish I was a little bit taller, I wish I was a baller, I wish I had a girl who looked good I would call her, I wish I had a rabbit in a hat with a bat and a six-four impala.

bicycle more like bikecycle

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sketchytravis sketchytravis
1/5/2014 8:42 PM
Brayden_Buckingham wrote:

Fucking creeping my ...more

I hope to god you don't normally look like that. I literally looked at the pictures and said that looks like someone I fucked with and beat up in highschool.

skooter... dont be a pussy

skooter: "WHY DIDN'T YOU GIVE ME VODKA!?"
sketchytravis: "... because i like being drunk, and if i give you my vodka im not drunk as much"
Chuck8273: "Logical. I like this logic. "

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eskimojay eskimojay
1/5/2014 8:45 PM

You beat up a Justin Bieber look alike? That's fucking awsome

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Brayden_Buckingham Brayden_Buckingham
1/5/2014 11:04 PM
sketchytravis wrote:

I hope to god you don't ...more

Dude no way haha. I wear name brand clothes , but I keep it skate/bmx influenced. Style for miles ! Of course not , it was for halloween , even then I felt pretty self consious with the hammerpants. Alot of room though ;D

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feeble_to_face feeble_to_face
1/6/2014 8:59 PM
Brayden_Buckingham wrote:

Fucking creeping my ...more

yea for a second i thought you were actually wearing those pants for legit walking around in. haha

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SickDude SickDude
1/6/2014 9:29 PM

Ur ugly stop making fun of me

I ride for my papou.
Cats got 9 lives I got four.

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dave lawrence dave lawrence
1/7/2014 7:08 AM

Look at it this way, she cares about you. You may not understand why, but she does. Obviously that means you deserve her in some way.

Best advice I can give you is keep being good to her. If you trust her, there should be no issue. I get that it is your first relationship, but realize she is with YOU. She is a person, and you should be okay with her being out with friends. If it bugs you when she is around a bunch of other dudes, hang out with her AND those dudes and put your mind at ease about them.

Become friends with those dudes. Then she hangs with your buddies.

Or, just talk to her.

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bmxfu2 bmxfu2
1/14/2014 9:37 AM

I just went through something kinda similar, my ex gf is neighbors with this one guy and he'd come over all the time and it made me jealous. I'd be txting her and she'd be like he and r this and he and I r tht and i kept how I felt locked away and it got out of hand in my opinion so I broke up with her a few days ago. We were together for about a year also but whatev, there r other fish in the sea.

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Brayden_Buckingham Brayden_Buckingham
1/15/2014 4:03 PM
bmxfu2 wrote:

I just went through ...more

Straight up bro , I feel you dude. I've been following your situation , its hard but the right choice. Definately need someone who takes your feelings into play. Thats not fair to you.

Yah , I got upset yesterday and now my girl and I aren't really talking atm , nothing major though. I think she tried to make me jealous , pretty lame haha. When we argue over stupid shit , it's just like dumb because it's literally over nothing LOL

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T-rider T-rider
1/26/2014 8:56 PM

That sucks man, hope you solve it.

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